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We avoid "college-pleasing, when students prioritize perceived college expectations over their authentic self-expression and values. We focus on self values to stand out and for long-term fulfillment.
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Authenticity Over College Pleasing
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Our mission
At Your Epic Consulting, our mission is to transform the college admissions journey by prioritizing authenticity over college-pleasing. Traditional programs often focus on improving test scores and crafting attractive applications, encouraging students to perform rather than be genuine. This performative approach may help students get into college, but it doesn't prepare them for long-term success. Once the performance is over, students are left questioning who they are and what they truly want.

We emphasize personal growth and self-discovery, guiding students to embrace their true selves and integrate their passions into their future careers. This approach not only leads to college acceptance but also sets the foundation for long-term self-fulfillment and career success. Our unique method ensures students don't just get into college—they thrive there and beyond, achieving success without compromising their authenticity.
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2008-2012: The Start of College-Pleasing

2011-2012 - The Start of College Pleasing

In high school, as an introvert who preferred one-on-one connections, I felt compelled to become a bubbly Key Club leader to "look good" on college applications. This facade was draining and impersonal, leaving me unfulfilled. Despite having the grades, test scores, and extracurriculars, I wasn’t accepted to my top choice school because I wasn't being myself. Instead, I attended UCLA, carrying forward this inauthenticity.

2012 - 2023: People-Pleasing in College & Beyond

2012-2023: People-Pleasing in College & Beyond

At UCLA, chosen for its prestige rather than personal fit, I felt isolated on its vast campus. Struggling academically in silence, I landed on academic probation. My people-pleasing continued as I tried to emulate my peers' career paths, leaving me lost and unsatisfied. After switching from engineering to political science, I graduated but felt the same inauthenticity. I then pursued a higher education career at UC Berkeley, valued by my parents for its stability, yet the administrative roles lacked meaningful student interactions.

2017-2021: The Breaking Point

2017-2021: The Breaking Point

Years of seeking external validation, like choosing a major or job to please others, led to depression and low self-esteem. Pretending to be fine was exhausting, and I eventually burnt out. I quit my job at UC Berkeley to focus on my well-being and discover what truly energized me. This period of reflection marked a pivotal point in my journey towards self-acceptance and authenticity.

2023: Finding My True Self

2023: Finding My True Self

During a gap year in New York City, far from my California roots, I had the space to rethink my identity and values. While mentoring foster kids in high school brought me joy, I realized I had also mentored peers in college and adulthood but never pursued it as a career because I didn't believe in myself. Focusing on my strengths helped me embrace self-acceptance and recognize that my true passion lay in compassionate, empathetic, and genuine mentoring. I finally prioritized my authentic self by doing what I love — mentoring youth who, like me, sought acceptance for who they truly were.

2023: Your Epic Consulting Today

2023: Your Epic Consulting Today

I founded Your Epic Consulting to guide students away from "college pleasing" so they don't walk the challenging path that I did. We help students identify, practice, and communicate their values authentically, aiming for both college and self-acceptance. This approach fosters holistic success, allowing students to thrive in any academic environment while living in alignment with their personal values.

P.S. Shortly after founding this firm, I graduated with a Master of Education in Higher Education Enrollment!

Our values
Our values guide every aspect of our personalized, values-driven approach to college admissions consulting.
Trusted admissions expertise
Trusted admissions expertise
We apply insider knowledge, seasoned expertise, and proven frameworks to provide reliable and effective admissions guidance, ensuring each step is informed and strategic.
Authentic Self-discovery
We prioritize helping students uncover their true selves through introspective exploration, ensuring their college journey is genuine and fulfilling.
We boost your child's self-confidence
Holistic growth
We emphasize a balanced approach to personal and academic development, fostering self-awareness and long-term success.
Lifelong career fulfillment
Long-term career fulfillment
Our focus extends beyond college acceptance, aiming to instill self-acceptance and intentionality for lifelong fulfillment and success.
Personalized college admissions guidance
Personalized guidance
We provide tailored support that aligns with each student’s unique values, strengths, and aspirations, empowering them to make confident, value-driven decisions.
Purposeful engagement with meaningful activities for college admissions
Purposeful engagement
We guide students to engage in activities that resonate with their values and interests, adding depth and intentionality to their college applications.
We have integrity and transparency when it comes to working with you on college admissions
Integrity & transparency
We maintain clear, honest communication throughout the admissions process, setting realistic expectations and ensuring families feel informed and confident.
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Genuine connection
We build strong, empathetic relationships with students and families, creating a supportive environment that encourages open dialogue and mutual understanding.
Behind the name, Your Epic Consulting
We chose "Your Epic Consulting" because we are story-driven, helping people find and tell their unique stories. An "epic" signifies a significant, impactful narrative, inspired by grand stories about Greek war heroes. It also plays on words, suggesting that each student is epic in their own way. We aim to bring out these meaningful stories, making every student's journey truly epic.
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